FRIENDSHIP RESULTS

 Friends are your chosen family. Some friends are for life and some may not be long-lasting. But each friend is unique and has some impact on your life. We desire that impact to be positive only and guard you against any negative impact which may distress you for lifetime.  

 

Time to check the scores

Result -1 Toxic Friend

If your answer in section –A is mostly ~never or ~sometimes,

And answer to questions in section-B is mostly ~always

Then your relationship/ friendship can be considered –toxic

Result-2 True friends

If your answer in section –A is mostly ~always or ~sometimes,

And answer to questions in section-B is mostly ~never

Congratulations, you have true friends in your life

Result-3 New friends

If your answer in section –A is mostly ~sometimes,

And answer to questions in section-B is mostly ~sometimes

You need to work on your friendship/ relationship or make new friends

To recognize whether a particular friend is a wolf in sheep’s clothing, you can look for several characteristics. You won’t be able to detect a toxic friend for a long, but if you are alert and observe your connection closely, you can find out their intent. Now that you have identified a toxic person in your life, you can get rid of them by following the given suggestions:-

1)  If you realize that they are not worth your energy and time, make up your mind to gap from them.

2)      Start by Ignoring their calls and messages.  This will initially be very hard on you, but a strong will-power will pull you through.

3)      Once you start feeling that there is a positive difference in your life due to less influence by them, you can be more determined to leave them.

4)      Talk to other friends, parents, siblings, cousins, or anyone else you trust, for helping you out of the situation.

5)      Develop a hobby or start an activity which will keep you busy and give you less time to think about that person.

6)      After a few dark days, you will find sunshine.

Now that you have identified who your true friends are, here are some ideas to make your friendship long lasting:-

1)      Understand each other’s positive and negative characteristics and accept it. You can gradually help each other work harder and become a better individual.

2)      Don’t let a misunderstanding creep in and spoil your trust. Always sort things out before it’s too late.

3)      Try not to involve other friends in your fights. This may make things worse; try resolving your issues yourself.

4)      Build a rapport with their parents and family.

5)      Make effort to make their joyful days more extraordinary by your actions.

6)      Never insult or embarrass them by sharing something with others that they trusted you with. If it happens by chance, be apologetic and make up to it as soon as possible.

7)      Never advise them against their family. Always give a positive outlook to their problems or situations. Never show them the wrong path. If you are not capable of advising, guide them to someone who can actually help them.

8)      Motivate them to do something in their life. Help them decide a hobby or a career according to their strong and weak points. Be honest with them about your opinions related to them.

9)      Be respectful of each other’s backgrounds, beliefs and boundaries set by each.

10)  Be mature during sensitive conversations. You may or may not agree to everything but you can certainly handle things in a positive manner

11)  Each person has a different personality and will behave differently. Do not compare one friend’s gestures to another. Communicate your expectations clearly.

 

How to make new friends:-

1)      If you have moved to a new city, school or area, stay in touch with old friends. They may have cousins or friends in that area.

2)      Be outgoing and talk to new people.

3)      Join a hobby class to meet new people. Or you can start any other activity which has no monetary transactions involved like going for a walk, cycling or playing in the nearby park.

4)      Speak to people with an open mind. Don’t show your arrogance or attitude. Make it easy for them and yourself to initiate a conversation.

5)      Don’t always show your superiority or intelligence and make the other person feel low. Friends are supposed to be spending fun time together.

6)      Appreciate people you come in contact with. Admire their skills/ behavior/ personality.

7)      Never make friends online. You cannot trust anyone on social media where the true identity of the person is hidden. Do not share your personal details with anyone you do not know.

8)      You can join a social cause as a volunteer which introduces you to new people which share common interest.

9)      Participate in more activities or competitions in school or college to get an opportunity to be known by other students and teachers.

We hope that you will find the above discussed points useful and will be find them beneficial in your life.

 However if you face any dilemma or hesitation, or you need to discuss any point in detail, feel free to connect and chat. We are always there for you!

Happy journey!!