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Teenagers and board exams

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 The board exam of class 10 is another major milestone in a child’s life. We all understand the importance of these exams. All the more, in this year of 2022, the pattern has changed and the teens are appearing of these exams twice in one year as term 1 and 2. This of course has added to the pressure. However, in view of the fact that class 10 exams decide the stream they can opt for, it becomes imperative to score the required minimum. The hard work, dedication and sincerity will undeniably provide the results. Parents and students must keep in mind a few things during the preparation period. Parents: Be optimistic in your approach : the words of parents become a child’s self talk. So ensure that you are positive about the exams. Avoid usage of any negative words or comments in concern to their preparation, studies or earlier marks scored.   Don’t pressurize for grades, rather encourage them to study hard. Trust them : each person has own style of studying. May be your child can
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Skills women must possess/learn

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    The world celebrates International women’s day on 8 March every year. While reading the wishes of being powerful, empowered and extraordinary, it occurred to me that there are a lot of things which want to go back and tell me younger self. Those qualities which will help me become that truly empowered woman that I am being told I am. A woman plays many roles throughout her living. From a daughter to mother to wife, but she overlooks the most significant responsibility- to be a woman, to be herself. After breathing for about four decades, being married in a typical Indian household, I have the awareness of all that I neglected. Although I cannot take a trip back in time, but certainly, it’s never too late to make appropriate rectification for the future. Besides, I can share my experience with all the girls. So here are a few skills which each woman/ girl must, undeniably, learn or develop or, at least, never ignore.              Become skilled at money matters :         Most
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Raising new generation of males

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  Being a mother of daughters, I never got a chance to apprehend that parenting boys and girls can be so different. After a lot of observation, research and discussion with boy moms, I came up with this piece of writing. National Girl Child Day is observed on 24 January which was initiated in 2008 by Government of India and ministry of women and child welfare. The idea behind this initiative was “Beti bachao, Beti padao” , which means- ”save the girl child, educate the girl child”. This was started to bring awareness among people of the importance of girl child, the health and nutrition necessities along with their rights in the society. Various programs have made it possible for girls to grow and accomplish what they deserve, of course exceptions do exist. The patriarchal pattern still has some disparaging consequences for both men and women. “I am not the woman president of Harvard; I am the president of Harvard.” - Drew Gilpin Faust . The globe today has need of a generatio
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Comparison- are you doing it right?

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  Let us consider a situation and decide who the better performer is. Sagar and Tara walked a distance of 2 km. Sagar finished it in 25 minutes while Tara took 45 minutes. So clearly, Sagar wins. Right? Adding to the details- Tara walked on coarse pathway while Sagar walked on flat lane- you will now say that Tara did better. Oh! Did I mention Sagar is 115 kg while Tara is 65 kg- it is obvious that Sagar did better? Now if I tell you that Sagar is 25 years old while Tara is 60 years old. Your answer will change to Tara! So, it is apparent by the above instance that comparison is useless as situation or circumstances can never be the same for a fair judgment. “Stop comparing yourself to others. You have your own race to run. Finish well.” ~ Moore What is comparison? Comparison is an act to assess two or more things or situations, taking into consideration their similarities and dissimilarities to determine their suitability for a particular purpose. Humans have the abi
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The solo trip of an Indian woman

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 "When your heart is pure and intention is sincere, the Almighty has a way of making sure that everything works out for you". Parul experienced this quote in real life. When she decided to discuss yet again with Keshav, he could comprehend the need of her relaxation. He immediately agreed as well as began to plan a safe and fulfilling vacation for his wife. Nothing could be more thrilling for her. She was clear on her necessities and this helped them find a grand place.   Reservations were done and time to commence the journey. The excitement turned into nervousness on thought of travelling 7 hours alone. But children reminded her of the confidence. The thought of leaving children was making her sad too. It is not easy to leave family to go to have fun, but this time, she was unapologetic about putting herself first.   Parul boarded the bus at 4am. Family dropped her at the bus station. The loving husband also prepared a sandwich for her to have while on the way. Since th
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Indian woman and solo trip

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 Parul has been married for 17 years into a typical Indian household. While her parents in law have changed from being traditional to more freethinking, her husband has not been able to accept the changing times for the women. He still believes that women are better at home, taking care of family . Though he confesses that it’s a fantastic habit of his wife to stay away from chitchat world, he is not very comfortable with the idea of an earning venture for her. Parul and Keshav had a love marriage. Keshav has always been a hard core romantic, protective and caring person. They have a good life full of love, laughter, arguments and celebration. Yet, after 17 years , Parul feels as if she is losing her identity being the shadow of the man. And then the pandemic fuelled the fire in her. 2020 was relatively better like a long family holiday. Kehsav is extremely fun loving and children enjoy his company. Oh, kids! They have two daughters, a teenager and a pre-teen. The prolongation of th
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